Twin Flames: The Truth About Your "Unawakened Runner"

Your Twin Flame Isn’t ‘Unawakened’

—They’re Reflecting Your Belief Patterns. Here’s How to Align for Union.

Hello, beautiful souls. It’s Mary, The Twin Flame Alchemist, here to give you the unfiltered truth about your so-called "unawakened runner" Twin Flame. If you’ve been searching for answers about why your Twin Flame seems distant, unresponsive, or just downright "unawakened," this is the guide for you. Today, we’re going to dive deep into the biggest misconceptions about Twin Flame separation, why it’s happening, and, most importantly, what you can do to align with union. Let’s get started.

The Biggest Mistake Twin Flames Make: Blame

One of the most common mistakes I see on the Twin Flame journey is blaming your Twin Flame for separation. It’s easy to fall into this trap when you’re overwhelmed by the pain of being apart. Maybe you’ve labeled your Twin Flame as the "unawakened runner," or perhaps you’re waiting for them to catch up spiritually. The truth? This mindset is exactly what’s keeping you in separation.

Here’s why:

Your Twin Flame is not some separate entity causing your pain or withholding your happiness. They are your soul’s mirror, reflecting your inner world back to you. Whatever resistance, fear, or low-vibrational beliefs you hold, they are reflecting those right back. Blaming them for "running" only feeds the illusion of separation. Let’s break down the truth of this dynamic with the three core principles of Twin Flames.

The Three Core Truths About Twin Flames

1. You Share the Same Soul Frequency
   At the soul level, you and your Twin Flame are identical—like spiritual twins. You were created as one soul and split to experience duality in the 3D world. This means that any duality or polarity between you and your Twin Flame will persist as long as you are in duality with yourself. Simply put, your alignment (or lack thereof) determines the dynamic with your Twin Flame.

2. You Share a Consciousness
   All your thoughts, beliefs, and fears are mirrored by your Twin Flame. What does this mean practically? If you’re holding onto resistance, blaming them for running, or doubting the connection, they will mirror those exact fears back to you. They aren’t "unawakened"; they’re showing you what needs healing within your own consciousness. The moment you clear these blocks and align with your soul’s energy, they will naturally shift too.

3. You Share an Energy Body
   Your thoughts, beliefs, and vibrations don’t just affect you—they affect your shared energy body. This means that any negative or fear-based energy you’re holding onto creates resistance in the connection. Your Twin Flame can’t physically or emotionally align with you until your energy is in harmony with your soul—the essence of love, peace, and fulfillment.

The Myths Keeping You Stuck

There’s a lot of misinformation floating around about Twin Flames, and much of it keeps people trapped in separation. Let’s address the top myths:

1. The "Divine Masculine Collective" Myth
   No, there is not a collective of Divine Masculines sitting in limbo waiting for an astrological event like the 11:11 portal or the Lions Gate to "wake them up." The Twin Flame journey is not about astrology, external energies, or celestial cycles. It’s about your inner alignment and taking full responsibility for your energy.

2. The "Unawakened Runner" Myth
   Labeling your Twin Flame as "unawakened" or "the runner" is a misunderstanding of the journey. They are not running from you; they are mirroring back the resistance, fears, and beliefs you hold. This isn’t about them waking up; it’s about you waking up to your soul’s truth.

3. The "Blame Game" Myth
   Blaming your Twin Flame for separation keeps you stuck in victim consciousness. Remember: they are you. Blaming them is essentially blaming yourself. The way forward is through radical self-responsibility.

Shifting Out of Separation

Separation is not a punishment or a permanent state. It’s a state of consciousness that reflects misalignment with your soul. Here’s how to shift into alignment and move toward union:

1. Clarify Your Desire
   What do you truly want in this connection? Union isn’t just about being with your Twin Flame physically; it’s about embodying the state of love, peace, and alignment with your soul. Get clear on your desire and write it down.

2. Release Resistance
   Identify the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that contradict your desire. Are you telling yourself that your Twin Flame is "running" or "unawakened"? Are you holding onto anger, frustration, or doubt? These are all forms of resistance that need to be released.

3. Take Responsibility for Your Energy
   Your energy creates your reality. This is a fundamental law of the universe. If you want to experience union, you must align your energy with your soul. This means releasing blame, fear, and low-vibrational beliefs and stepping into unconditional love and self-awareness.

4. Practice "I AM" Consciousness
   Your soul’s essence is love, peace, and fulfillment. Aligning with your soul means embodying these states. Use affirmations like "I am love," "I am peace," and "I am fulfilled" to anchor yourself in this truth.

The Path to Union: Desire + Non-Resistance

Union with your Twin Flame is simple, but not always easy. It boils down to this formula:

Desire + Non-Resistance = Desired Reality

Get clear on your desire. Then, identify and release anything that contradicts it. Blame, fear, doubt, and limiting beliefs are all forms of resistance. When you take full responsibility for your energy and align with your soul’s truth, union becomes inevitable.

Ready to Transform?

If you’re ready to stop blaming your Twin Flame, release resistance, and step into alignment, I have something special for you. My free masterclass dives deeper into the 12 myths and mistakes that keep Twin Flames stuck in separation. It’s quick, transformative, and the perfect first step toward mastering your journey.

Plus, when you complete the masterclass, you’ll get a free 30-minute call with me to see if you’re ready for the Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind Course & Community. This seven-week course is designed to help you align with your soul, release resistance, and create the reality you desire—in just 90 days.

Remember, your Twin Flame is your soul. Union isn’t about waiting for them to change; it’s about becoming the highest version of yourself. Let’s take this journey together.

Click [here] to sign up for the free masterclass and take the first step toward union.

You’ve got this, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

With love and tough honesty,

Mary, The Twin Flame Alchemist

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