Twin Flames: Does Your Soul Care If You’re With Them?

Does Your Soul Want You to Be with Your Twin Flame? The Truth About Your Soul's Desire

One of the most common and confusing debates in the Twin Flame journey is whether your soul actually wants you to be with your Twin Flame in the 3D or not. Some teachings claim that your soul doesn’t care if you’re with your Twin Flame. Others insist that wanting to be with your Twin Flame is a sign of attachment and ego. Then, of course, there are those who say that being together in physical union is the ultimate purpose of the journey. With so many conflicting perspectives, how do you know what’s true?

Let’s break it down and uncover the deeper reality behind this question—one that aligns with the true nature of the Twin Flame journey and the soul’s purpose.

The Misconceptions About Wanting or Not Wanting Your Twin Flame

It seems like everyone on the journey has a different opinion or teaching on whether or not you’re “supposed” to be in or even desire physical union with your Twin Flame. From my observation there are three main beliefs floating around in the Twin Flame community:

1. You’re not supposed to want to be with your Twin Flame.

2. Your soul doesn’t care whether you’re with your Twin Flame or not.

3. When you’re in balance, you won’t care either way.

Here’s the truth: all three of these perspectives are rooted in separation consciousness. Let’s dissect why.

"You’re Not Supposed to Want to Be with Your Twin Flame"

This belief comes from the idea that desire itself is attachment and that attachment creates suffering. While there’s truth in the fact that fear-based attachment does push your Twin Flame away, denying your soul’s natural inclination toward union is just another form of resistance. Your soul does desire union—not from a place of lack, but from a place of wholeness.

"Your Soul Doesn’t Care if You’re Together or Not"

This is one of the most misleading statements in the Twin Flame community. The idea that your soul is indifferent to your physical experience contradicts the very reason you incarnated. If your soul didn’t care, then why did it manifest into two bodies? Why did you even meet your Twin Flame in the first place? Your soul does care, but not in the way your mind may expect.

"When You’re in Balance, You Won’t Care Either Way"

This belief suggests that if you reach a state of neutrality, you’ll feel nothing about whether you’re with your Twin Flame. But neutrality isn’t apathy. Neutrality isn’t numbness. True balance isn’t about detaching from your desire—it’s about aligning with it at a soul level. When you reach true inner union, you will naturally resonate with the energy of harmonious union in the 3D as well.

Understanding Your Soul’s True Purpose

Your soul is an aspect of God, Source, All That Is. It is inherently one, existing in a state of perfect non-duality. In its purest state, it does not experience separation—there is no "here" or "there," no "with" or "without." It is simply whole.

However, in the 3D reality, we exist in a realm of polarity—duality between light and shadow, right and wrong, separation and union. The reason you are on this Twin Flame journey is because your soul chose to experience itself through the lens of duality, to explore the return to oneness within this realm of duality.

Think of your soul as a cosmic egg—a unified whole in the higher dimensions. When you incarnate, that energy splits into two polarities, manifesting in a simultaneous incarnation of both you and your Twin Flame. The journey is not about becoming one; you already are one. The process is about aligning with that truth in your conscious awareness.

What Does This Mean for Your Twin Flame Union?

If your soul’s essence is oneness, and your journey is about aligning with that truth, then the idea that your soul "doesn’t care" about union in the 3D is fundamentally flawed. Your soul cares deeply—not from an emotional, human attachment, but from the perspective of energetic alignment.

Your soul’s true desire is not about whether or not you are "together" in a traditional sense, but about whether you are in energetic alignment with oneness. When you fully align with that truth, the physical manifestation naturally follows.

So if you’re wondering whether your soul wants you to be with your Twin Flame, ask yourself this:

• Are you aligning with your soul’s energy of oneness, or are you feeding into separation consciousness?

• Are you seeking union from a place of lack, or from the awareness that you already are one?

• Are you resisting the natural pull toward your Twin Flame by trying to be "neutral" or "detached" in an effort to protect yourself or numb your true soul’s desire?

The Answer: Yes, Your Soul Wants You in Union—But Not in the Way You Think

Your soul is not indifferent. Your soul did not bring you to this journey just to say, "It doesn’t matter." Your soul wants you to align with your true self, which naturally results in Twin Flame union. But the key is understanding that union is an energetic state, not just a physical relationship.

The real journey is about inner alignment, not chasing or avoiding. When you embody your soul’s frequency of oneness, your external reality—including your connection with your Twin Flame—reflects that truth.

So, instead of asking whether your soul wants you to be with your Twin Flame, ask yourself: Am I aligning with my soul’s truth of oneness? Because when you do, the answer becomes crystal clear.

Ready to Align with Truth? Don’t Let Others’ Beliefs Dull Your Awareness on This Journey

If this resonated with you and you’re ready to go deeper, I invite you to join my Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind or check out my free mini-course "12 Mistakes You’re Making That Are Keeping You in Separation." Click here to get started on the path to alignment and union.

By releasing what what beliefs, thoughts and emotions are NOT in line with your true self, you make space for the limitless possibilities of your soul’s highest expression. And that, dear one, is where union truly begins.Union Is The Next Step on Your Journey

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Remember: harmony begins within. When you align with your soul, everything else falls into place.

If you’re ready to explore this process more deeply and align with your soul’s highest potential, consider joining my Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind or exploring one of my free mini-courses. Remember, the journey is not about waiting for your Twin Flame’s return; it’s about returning to yourself. When you do, everything else naturally falls into place

Remember, your Twin Flame is your soul. Union isn’t about waiting for them to change; it’s about becoming the highest version of yourself. Let’s take this journey together.

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You’ve got this, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

With love and tough honesty,

Mary, The Twin Flame Alchemist

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