Why Taking the Twin Flame Journey Too Seriously is Blocking Your Union

This is a message for YOU—yes, YOU, the Divine Feminine on the Twin Flame journey. I need you to hear this: you don’t have to take this journey so seriously. Listen up for the subtle clues on the Journey regarding your Twin Flame Energy – and how to fix it Your Twin Flame may want you to know that you don’t have to take yourself or this journey so seriously – my Twin Flame let me know. He lovingly gave me clues to the journey and I am sure if you listen closely, your TF has given you clues too.

I know what you’re thinking. “But this is the most important connection of my life! If I don’t do this right, I’ll stay in separation forever.”

Stop. Breathe. Let that go.

This was one of the hardest lessons I had to learn from my own Twin Flame, and I want to save you the time, the energy, and the heartache that I went through before I finally got it.

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The Weight of Heavy Energy (And Why It’s Pushing Your Twin Away)

At the beginning of my journey, my twin used to tell me, “Your energy is so heavy. Why can’t you just go with the flow?”

And let me tell you, at that time, that phrase did not compute. What does that even mean? How do I just go with the flow when my heart is on fire, my soul feels like it’s being ripped in two, and every teacher out there is telling me I need to “fix” something to get my twin back?

But here’s what I realized: when you take this journey too seriously, you become the very block that is keeping you stuck.

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The Law of Assumption is Always at Work

Before I understood how energy worked, I was always assuming the worst. And guess what? My twin called me out on it. “You’re always assuming the worst” he would say.

Back then, I didn’t even know about the Law of Assumption. I didn’t realize that whatever you assume about your twin, about yourself, about this journey—if you persist in it, it becomes your reality.

So if you’re constantly thinking:

• My twin doesn’t want to be with me.
• They’re happy with someone else.
• I have to be perfect before they’ll come back.

Guess what? That’s the energy you’re putting out, and energy is like a boomerang. Whatever you send out comes right back.

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The Twin Flame Obsession That’s Holding You Back

I get it. When you first wake up to this connection, the push & pull is intense. The longing is overwhelming. You’ll do anything to get them back.

For me, it wasn’t just about thinking about them 24/7—it was an obsession with “doing the work” perfectly. I had to be the straight-A student of the Twin Flame journey. I needed to master it, get it right, pass the test.

But here’s the hard truth: this is not a test you can study for. There is no report card. There is no “perfect” way to do this journey. And trying to force it is exactly why it isn’t working.

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Stop Trying to Be Perfect (It’s Not Helping You)

Let me say this loud and clear: you don’t have to be perfect to be in union.

Perfection is a lie. Your twin doesn’t need you to be perfect. The Universe doesn’t need you to be perfect. What you actually need is to be aligned.

And alignment isn’t about forcing, fixing, or overanalyzing. It’s about surrender. It’s about ease. It’s about fun.

The Twin Flame Journey is Supposed to Be FUN

One of the most beautiful things about the dynamic between my twin and me is that when we’re in the right energy, we are playful. We are like big kids—laughing, teasing, and flowing with life instead of resisting it.

Life is meant to be lived like a kid in a candy shop—excited, curious, full of wonder and joy.

So let me ask you: where in your life are you making this journey heavy? Where are you putting too much pressure on yourself? Where can you let go?

Because the moment you stop treating this journey like a do-or-die mission and start embodying the joy of being YOU, the energy shifts. And when the energy shifts, your twin feels it.

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I don’t teach you techniques to “get your twin back.” That’s not what this is about. What I teach you is how to align with YOURSELF—because when you do, the Twin Flame dynamic naturally shifts.

If you’re ready to let go of the struggle, the heavy energy, and the perfectionism that’s keeping you stuck in separation, I invite you to join me inside the mastermind. This is where we go deep, unravel the patterns, and create the energetic shifts that change everything.

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And remember, this journey is meant to be fun. Let yourself enjoy it.

Let’s Talk Twin Flame Energy—What’s Yours?

Your unique energy blueprint plays a huge role in how you experience this journey. Your Zodiac Big Three (Sun, Moon, and Rising signs), your Human Design type, and even your Chinese Zodiac sign all influence the way you process emotions, approach relationships, and navigate spiritual growth.

I’d love to know—what’s your energy like? How have you noticed it playing out in your Twin Flame journey? Drop a comment below with your Zodiac Big Three, Human Design type, or Chinese Zodiac sign, and let’s explore the connections together!