Mary Hartje - The Twin Flame Alchemist - Twin Flame Coach, Spiritual Teacher & Consciousness Mentor

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The Truth What Your Twin Flame Is “Doing”.

Stop Keeping Yourself in Separation: What “THEY” Are Doing Is Irrelevant. Here’s The Truth About the Twin Flame Journey

Hi, this is Mary, The Twin Flame Alchemist. Today, we’re going to tackle one of the biggest mistakes almost every twin flame makes on this journey—mistakes that are keeping you stuck in separation. This might sting a little, but it’s the truth you need to hear: you’re giving way too much power to what your twin flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling.

Here’s the hard truth: their behavior is irrelevant.

I know that may sound shocking, but stay with me, and I’ll explain why. I’ll also share the three core truths of the twin flame journey that will simplify your path, help you understand what’s really happening, and empower you to reclaim your energy.

The Real Mistake Keeping You Stuck in Separation

The twin flame journey is unique, intense, and deeply personal. However, many people fall into the trap of letting their twin flame’s actions (or lack thereof) dictate their emotions, self-worth, and the direction of the journey.

Does any of this sound familiar?

- “Why aren’t they reaching out?”

- “Why are they acting like they don’t care?”

- “Why are they with someone else?”

Here’s the thing: focusing on what your twin flame is doing is not only irrelevant—it’s a distraction. When you make their actions mean something negative about you, it keeps you stuck in fear-based energy, which only perpetuates separation.

Why? Because the twin flame journey isn’t about them. It’s about you.

The Three Core Truths of the Twin Flame Journey

Let’s clear up the confusion and get to the heart of this journey. Forget the myths, romanticized stories, and external distractions. The twin flame journey boils down to these three undeniable truths:

1. You Are the Same Soul at Creation

You and your twin flame share the same soul essence. At the core, you are one being, split into two polarities for the purpose of experiencing duality in this 3D realm.

This is why you feel that intense connection—the undeniable pull, the familiarity, and sometimes, the deep frustration. But this polarization also creates what I call the “funhouse mirror effect,” where fear-based energy distorts the connection.

When you’re in fear, you see illusions: rejection, abandonment, and unworthiness. But these aren’t real—they’re reflections of your own inner state.

2. You Share Consciousness

Your twin flame mirrors your beliefs—especially the fear-based ones. If you believe you’re unworthy of love, they’ll mirror that back to you through their actions.

The good news? When you shift your beliefs and align with self-love and inner peace, they’ll reflect that, too. This is why your inner work is non-negotiable. Your job isn’t to control them or fix the connection—it’s to clear your own fears and align with your soul.

3. You Share an Energy Body

Have you ever felt your twin flame’s presence even when they’re miles away? Or experienced emotional or physical sensations you couldn’t explain?

That’s because you share an energy body. This connection is why the twin flame journey feels unlike any other relationship—it’s happening on a soul level.

This is also why no amount of chasing, fixing, or obsessing in the 3D will work. The key to union lies in balancing your shared energy field, which starts with you.

Why You’re in Control (and Why That’s Amazing)

The twin flame journey is an awakening and ascension path disguised as a relationship. It’s here to teach you the truth about who you are: a creator of your reality, not a victim of it.

If your journey feels chaotic, painful, or stagnant, it’s not because your twin flame is doing something wrong. It’s because your energy is out of alignment.

You are the one in control—not them.

What they’re doing, saying, or feeling is just a reflection of your inner world. When you stop resisting this truth and take responsibility for your energy, the game changes.

When you shift:

- Fear dissolves.

- Obsession fades.

- You reclaim your power.

And yes, when you align with your soul, you naturally magnetize your twin flame back into your reality—if that’s what you choose.

What’s Next? How to Master the Journey

I know this journey can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. It’s much simpler than you’re making it out to be. All you need to do is focus on balancing your energy, clearing fear-based beliefs, and aligning with your soul.

If you’re tired of running in circles, I’ve created resources to help you:

1. Free Masterclass: “12 Mistakes Keeping You in Separation”

This mini-course is packed with insights to help you identify and clear the common blocks on this journey. Over 99% of twin flames are making these mistakes—don’t let yourself be one of them.

2. Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind

In this group, I’ll teach you how to master your journey, balance your energy, and create the life you deserve. This isn’t about tricks or techniques—it’s about alignment with your truth.

For the next few days only, I’m offering early bird pricing. Don’t miss your chance to join at this exclusive rate.

3. One-on-One Coaching

If you’re ready to go even deeper, I’m here for private sessions where we’ll dive into your unique journey and clear the blocks keeping you stuck.

The Truth You Need to Embrace

The twin flame journey isn’t about them. It’s about you.

Stop focusing on the external, and start turning inward. When you master your energy, your reality will shift. This is your ascension path, your awakening, and your soul’s journey home.

If you’re ready to stop chasing, start aligning, and truly understand the purpose of this connection, I’m here to guide you.

Click the links below to sign up for the mini-course, join the mastermind, or book a session with me. Let’s transform your journey together.

You’ve got this. You’re in control. Now, let’s do the work.

If you’re ready to take this deeper, I’m here. The Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind opens on November 15. It’s seven transformative weeks designed to take you from separation to alignment, from resistance to peace. And yes, it’s powerful.

Click below to learn more and join us on this journey to union, starting with your own self-worth.

In love and alignment,

Mary

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