Mary Hartje - The Twin Flame Alchemist - Twin Flame Coach, Spiritual Teacher & Consciousness Mentor

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Why Overcomplicating The Journey Keeps You In Separation—& How to Fix It.

Twin Flame Mistakes - Why You’re Overcomplicating the Journey & How to Fix It

Hi, I’m Mary, the Twin Flame Alchemist. If you’re on the twin flame journey and feeling stuck in separation, I want to let you in on a truth that 99% of people on this path overlook. It’s the reason you’re spinning in pain, confusion, and obsession. The biggest mistake twin flames make is overcomplicating the journey.

Let’s break it down, dispel the myths, and get you back to the simplicity that brings true alignment.

Why You’re Overcomplicating the Twin Flame Journey

From the moment you awaken to the fact that you’re on the twin flame journey, your mind starts running wild:

- “Why is my twin acting this way?”

- “Why does everything feel so distorted, like a funhouse mirror?”

- “Why am I in so much pain?”

Sound familiar? That’s because the ego loves to overanalyze, overthink, and overcomplicate. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a journey of the mind. It’s a journey of the soul.

The Simple Truth About Twin Flames

There are only a few truths about this journey, and they’re far less complicated than you might think.

1. You Share a Soul Resonance With Your Twin Flame

At the core, you and your twin flame are the same soul split into two expressions. This means the connection transcends anything your mind can fully grasp. But in this 3D world, we live in polarity and duality. That’s why your twin often mirrors back the parts of you that feel distorted, triggering you to heal and grow.

2. You Share a Consciousness With Your Twin Flame

Every belief you hold about yourself and your twin is mirrored back to you through their actions. They are your divine mirror. So, if you’re seeing fear, doubt, or rejection in them, it’s a reflection of your inner state. This is a journey of inner mastery, not external control.

3. You & Your Twin Flame Share an Energy Body

That’s why you feel them all the time. It’s why you can’t stop thinking about them. But here’s the catch: when you obsess over them, analyze their behavior, or focus on their actions, you’re projecting your energy outward. This creates resistance, which energetically pushes them away.

Why This Journey Feels So Hard

The twin flame path can feel like the most painful, confusing experience of your life because it’s designed to strip away everything that isn’t in alignment with your soul. This isn’t about getting your twin to “wake up” or chasing them until they return.

It’s about returning to yourself. It’s about YOU not running from yourself. It’s time to come HOME.

When you focus on your inner being—your soul, your consciousness, your alignment—you stop the cycle of running and chasing. You collapse the illusion of separation and duality.

How to Simplify the Twin Flame Journey

Here’s the simplest truth: Your twin flame is you. The connection is never outside of you—it’s within you. Here’s how to shift your focus and reclaim your power:

1. Stop Overthinking

Every time your mind spirals into “Why are they doing this?” or “What does this mean?”—pause. Remember, this isn’t a puzzle to solve. It’s a journey to your soul.

2. Shift Your Focus Inward

Instead of obsessing over your twin, ask yourself: What am I feeling right now? What belief is this mirroring back to me? Address those beliefs within yourself.

3. Master Your Energy

Understand that your energy creates your reality. When you align with love, peace, and joy—your true soul essence—you naturally harmonize with your twin flame.

4. Let Go of Linear Time

Stop “waiting” for your twin to come back. Linear time is an illusion. The more you focus on “when,” the more you push the reunion into the future. Align with the eternal now, where all possibilities exist.

Take the Next Step

If you’re ready to end the pain, confusion, and obsession, I’ve created tools to help you master this journey:

- Free Masterclass: “12 Mistakes You’re Making on the Twin Flame Journey That Keep You in Separation” will show you how to shift your focus inward and align with your soul. Plus, you’ll get a free 30-minute consultation with me (usually $150).

- Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind: This is for those ready to transcend fear-based energy, stop the running and chasing, and magnetize their twin flame back into their 3D reality. Join my group coaching sessions (Tuesdays and Thursdays) to connect with me and other twin flames on the journey. Sign up before early bird pricing ends .

Click the links in the below to sign up and take the first step toward mastering your journey.

Final Words of Tough Love

This journey isn’t about “fixing” your twin flame or figuring out why they’re doing what they’re doing. It’s about reclaiming your power and aligning with the truth of who you are. The more you focus on your inner being, the more you collapse the illusion of separation.

Stop overcomplicating it. Stop waiting. Start aligning.

You are the creator of your reality—and that includes your twin flame union.

I’ll see you on the other side.

With love and alignment,

Mary, The Twin Flame Alchemist

What’s Next? How to Master the Journey

I know this journey can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. It’s much simpler than you’re making it out to be. All you need to do is focus on balancing your energy, clearing fear-based beliefs, and aligning with your soul.

If you’re tired of running in circles, I’ve created resources to help you:

1. Free Masterclass Reveals: “12 Mistakes Keeping You in Separation”

This mini-course is packed with insights to help you identify and clear the common blocks on this journey. Over 99% of twin flames are making these mistakes—don’t let yourself be one of them.

2. Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind

In this group, I’ll teach you how to master your journey, balance your energy, and create the life you deserve. This isn’t about tricks or techniques—it’s about alignment with your truth.

For the next two months only, I’m offering early pricing. Don’t miss your chance to join at this exclusive rate.

3. One-on-One Coaching

If you’re ready to go even deeper, I’m here for private sessions where we’ll dive into your unique journey and clear the blocks keeping you stuck.

The Truth You Need to Embrace

The twin flame journey isn’t about them. It’s about you.

Stop focusing on the external, and start turning inward. When you master your energy, your reality will shift. This is your ascension path, your awakening, and your soul’s journey home.

If you’re ready to stop chasing, start aligning, and truly understand the purpose of this connection, I’m here to guide you.

Click the links below to sign up for the mini-course, join the mastermind, or book a session with me. Let’s transform your journey together.

You’ve got this. You’re in control. Now, let’s do the work.

If you’re ready to take this deeper, I’m here. The Twin Flame Alchemy Mastermind opens on November 15. It’s seven transformative weeks designed to take you from separation to alignment, from resistance to peace. And yes, it’s powerful.

Click below to learn more and join us on this journey to union, starting with your own self-worth.

In love and alignment,

Mary

Free Masterclass Reveals: 12 Myths & Mistakes That Create Twin Flame Separation